I felt the need to write this morning. I felt the need to share.
Do me a favor, play this song. Read the words – let them sink in – ACT
Many years ago, when I was a mere 15 years old, I made a friend. She and I had some things very much in common, but in other areas we were so very different. Our friendship continued to grow through ups and downs in both our lives. She became the mother of four beautiful boys. My house filled up with five of my own, four girls and one boy.
For me, the biggest moment we shared was when our Trina passed away. My dear friend was there for the memorial, she captured the special moment as the two balloons flew away, Trina joined by her cousin Kyle (who had passed just two weeks earlier). That was 1994 – fast forward to 2019 –
We haven’t spoken in years, but often thought of each other. Our Mother’s were friends and occasionally we got news through them. Our lives had gone two completely different directions. We moved on but were never forgotten.
Then one day, April 12, 2019 to be precise, I was sorting through a box and found some photos; my dear friend and her four boys. Christmas cards from years gone by; memories came flooding back. Where was she, why was she so in my mind?
I turned to Facebook. I knew she had remarried, so decided to search for her sons. Jackpot! The first one I searched had recently married, and there she was in one of the wedding pictures. I found her, we messaged back-and-forth, and reconnected. All the years melted away.
In all those years we were happily settled in the back of each other’s minds, life moved on. With the culmination of the loss of her twin boys. Both serving this country, both gone. Travis Feb 24, 2017 and Brandon August 26, 2018.
She made a Facebook post today; the one-year anniversary of Brandon’s death. She included the song I linked above. She wrote beautifully, emotions raw, quoting this song that has become a prayer to her. Keeping her strong, moving forward, becoming an inspiration to so many others. Jaye Lene, today you are my Hero.
Be Kind, Be There, Believe